1. Find out what your life purpose or vocation or calling. Then, when you know what it is, you need to work at refining it. You must get it into words and work on it until you have a carefully worded mission statement for yourself. Write it down and display it somewhere you can regularly see it and read it every day.
2. You need to quantify three or four goals (no more than that) each of which represent a step towards the accomplishment of your mission. Write them down and also display them somewhere you can regularly review them. When you are absolutely positive that you know exactly what you want to achieve, you will begin to notice all kinds of apparent co-incidences starting to happen in your life. There is nothing mystical about this, but you will begin to see opportunity where you would otherwise have missed it.
3. Work on your goals every day. Having goals without doing anything about them will not bring you success. Goals will not achieve themselves. You have to take actions everyday which will help you fulfill your mission.